I grew up in a house where the word “stable” was sacred.
Not stable like calm. Stable like this: Do not shake the system. Do not take risks. Do not dream too loudly, because loud dreams are for people with safety nets.
My mum worked hard. She followed the rules she was given. And the quiet lesson I absorbed was clear. Get a good job. Keep it. Be grateful.
So I did. Law degree. HR career. Salary, pension, the full safety package. For a long time that felt like enough. It felt like I had done life correctly.
After my body had given out when I was still at university, it felt like winning the lottery. Somewhere between my burnout and the slow, boring, unglamorous rebuilding, I started to notice something. The people I found most interesting, the ones who seemed to have built something that was actually theirs, were not the ones who threw stability in the bin. They were the ones who held both. A job and a project. A salary and a side thing. Security and something small growing quietly in the background.
That awareness did not arrive as a dramatic epiphany. It arrived on a random Tuesday evening with a cup of tea and a book I had been avoiding. I remember thinking, almost annoyed with myself: why does entrepreneurship feel like it was designed for someone who is not me.
March felt like the right month to sit with that properly. The shift from February into March does something to my brain. The light changes. The air feels a tiny bit less heavy. Things start to grow whether you feel ready or not. Spring does not wait for your plan. It just starts.
So this month I studied entrepreneurship. Not to become an entrepreneur tomorrow. Not to quit my job, launch a product or post a smug day in the life of a CEO reel. I wanted to understand it. To read it like a lawyer and a tired autistic HR woman who grew up in financial scarcity. To ask what is actually useful for someone like me, and what is just noise in a nice font.
This is what I found:
Here is something I wish someone had told me at the start of my HR career. Every organisation you will ever work for is, at its core, a machine for creating and capturing value. That is it. Understanding how that machine works how pricing decisions get made, why some products get money and others quietly disappear, how a company decides what your role is worth is not optional knowledge if you care about your career. It is the difference between being managed and understanding the game you are inside.
When I started reading about entrepreneurship this month, I realised I was not just reading about starting a business. I was reading about how value gets created, how markets respond to problems, how systems either scale or fall apart. Very quickly I started seeing my own workplace through a different lens.
Why do we approach projects in this specific way?. What problem are we really solving and are we actually solving it? Where is the inefficiency that someone, someday, will build a better solution for? These are not abstract, MBA exam questions. They are the questions that make you sharper in a meeting, more grounded in a negotiation, and harder to ignore in a performance review.
Entrepreneurship literacy is career literacy. Full stop.
One thing I kept coming back to this month. A lot of entrepreneurship is just pattern recognition. Noticing what is missing. Noticing what is broken. Noticing where people are paying a lot of money for a very average solution because nothing better exists yet.
You do not have to be the one who builds the better solution to benefit from that skill. Sometimes the most powerful move is to put yourself inside the company that is about to be disrupted or the one quietly doing the disrupting. Sometimes it is knowing which industry to move toward and which one to leave before it shrinks around you.
Understanding entrepreneurship does not mean you have to become an entrepreneur. It means you stop moving through an economic system on autopilot.
Let us be honest about what most entrepreneurship content looks like.
Someone with a ring light and a Shopify store tells you to “bet on yourself.” Someone who raised a seed round at 24 tells you the only thing between you and success is mindset. Someone who sold their company for eight figures tells you the secret is waking up at 5am and drinking iced coffee they did not make.
Most entrepreneurship content is a highlight reel narrated by someone who had capital, connections or a co founder with both and who no longer remembers what it felt like to start without those things. That is not bitterness. That is just paying attention.
Underneath the noise, the actual definition of entrepreneurship is pretty plain. You notice a problem. You create something that solves it. Then you build a system around that solution so it can work without you manually pushing every button every single time.
That is it. No ring light required.
What helped me this month was pulling apart the concept of entrepreneurship from the culture of entrepreneurship. The concept is old, practical and available to anyone. The culture the mythology, the burn the boats slogans, the worship of exhaustion is recent. And it was not built with everyone in mind.
I picked up $100 Million Offers by Alex Hormozi fully expecting to feel like it was not for me. In some ways I was right. The scale he talks about, the rhetoric that does not feel like me, the examples that start from you already having an audience that is not my life. And I am not the glowing content creator who grows a community in a month.
But one idea stopped me.
Hormozi talks about a “value equation.” The basic idea. The perceived value of any offer comes down to four things:
High dream outcome + high perceived likelihood + low time and low effort = feels valuable.
The formula itself did not shock me. What sat with me was the implication.
I used to think about value as something fixed. A product is either good or it is not. A service is either worth it or it is not. His framework suggests that value is mostly perceived and that perception is something you can shape on purpose. The same service, described differently and structured in a way that feels easier and clearer, becomes worth more. Not because the service changed. Because the story and the experience around it changed.
For someone like me, who has spent years quietly building skills and systems that actually help people at work, that hit a nerve. I am not bad at creating value. I have been (and still feel like I am) bad at communicating it. Those are not the same problem. They do not need the same solution.
This is the part my brain kept circling back to all month.
Entrepreneurship culture the books, the podcasts, the constant content around building a business was mostly created by people who started with things many of us do not have. Money. Or a network that acts like money. Or no dependants. Or the kind of confidence that comes from never being told that ambition is not for people like you.
I listened to Emma Grede on Aspire, talking about finding your why and starting your business and I found it genuinely inspiring. I also could not ignore that her starting point the connections she had, the industry she was already in is not something most listeners can copy. That does not make her story less true. It just makes the gap more visible.
Grace Beverly on Working Hard Hardly Working was more honest about this than most. In her episode on the four things she wished she had known before starting her business, she is pretty clear that what she built was possible partly because of timing, partly because of social media and partly because of things she did not fully control. That level of honesty is rare in this space and I appreciated it. But what is also clear to me, she solved a specific problem, she herself had and made that into a business. This is actually a story many female founders seem to share.
Leila Hormozi’s Build episode on goal setting mistakes was sharp and very practical. It was also written for someone who is deep in the building phase, not someone standing at the edge asking should I even try. Which is fine. It just means you need to know where you are on the path before you swallow the advice.
The Diary of a CEO episode “The Woman Who Makes Millionaires” was the one that made me most uncomfortable, in a way I needed. The whole “only 1% of people do this” framing is a classic scarcity hook. It works. It also quietly suggests that if you do not build wealth, it is because you personally failed, not because the system is skewed. Both things can be true at once. Mindset matters. The system is not neutral. Holding both without gaslighting yourself is part of thinking critically about this kind of content. And I don’t agree with Natalie Dawsons view on Burnout.
There is a big trend right now around building in public. Sharing your process, your numbers, your failures, your wins, in real time. The idea is that it builds trust, audience and accountability all at once.
I get why people like it. I also get why many women cannot safely do that. Especially if you are neurodivergent or you work in a conservative professional environment where a side project might look like disloyalty or you have people in your life who are not safe to share with. For some of us, visibility is not just vulnerable. It is risky. Yes, you can hit the block button any time and I urge everyone to use it liberally, I know I do. And you can be personal and still not share too personal things. But, seeing a woman fail in public if it doesn’t work out, feels to me, like just confirming gender biases.
Building in public is a real, valid strategy. It is also a strategy that quietly assumes a level of safety, professional, personal, social that is not evenly spread. For some of us, privacy is not fear. It is protection. You do not owe the internet your process for it to be legitimate.
I am building something. I am not ready to say what yet. That sentence stands on its own.
My original March plan looked great on paper. Classic autistic over engineering. Reading schedule, podcast queue, structured note taking system, colour coding. By the second week the schedule was gone and the system survived.
What actually worked. I read in the evenings before winding down for bed, listened to audio books and podcast while commuting and on the weekends doing chores. $100 Million Offers was read in a hospital waiting room while waiting for my mum.
I did not force myself to read every book front to back. I jumped to the chapters that felt relevant to where I am, bookmarked the rest and let myself be a messy, non linear reader without shame.
Small anecdotes were added to my notion pages at intervalls and I am still thinking of actually building myself a Zettelkasten on Obsidian.
I also went back to January’s economics reading. Herbert Edling’s Economics and Thomas Barthel’s Public Economy which I had worked through in January for the finance and economics month were more useful than I expected. Understanding how markets price things, how supply and demand actually behave, how public goods differ from private ones gave me a base layer. It helped me see why some business models work and others are slow motion disasters. The months in this series are meant to build on each other. This whole year is about amplifiying my general education and here it is again, becoming a top 1% educated woman. This was the first time I properly felt that stack in my brain instead of just knowing it in theory.
February’s technology and AI month kept showing up too. Almost every conversation about entrepreneurship ends up touching on what tech makes possible now that was impossible five years ago. Because I had already done the work in February, I did not feel lost when the conversation turned to that.
I am not an entrepreneur yet. I might become one. I might build something small and keep it deliberately small. Or I might build something that surprises me. I honestly do not know.
What I do know is that this month shifted how I see myself in relation to building. I stopped seeing entrepreneurship as a personality I do not have and started seeing it as a cluster of skills I can learn. For someone who grew up being told stability and ambition cancel each other out, that is not a small shift.
Q: I have a full-time job and no time. Is it even realistic to build something on the side?
Realistic, yes. Easy, no. Building something next to a full time job means you have to be ruthless about what you are not doing, not just what you are doing. Most people who build on the side do not secretly have extra hours you do not have. They have made different trade offs. That said, if you are in burnout recovery or your job is currently eating every spoon you have, this might not be your building season. That is not laziness. That is triage.
Q: I don’t have savings or capital to start anything. Does that mean entrepreneurship isn’t for me?
No. It means the kind of business you can start looks different from the ones that fill most books. Service businesses consulting, coaching, freelancing, writing need more time and skill than cash to begin. Digital products usually cost more in energy than in money. The capital heavy, high risk startups are the ones that get media coverage, which makes it easy to forget that most people who start something do not start there.
Q: I’m worried that if I start something and it fails, it will affect my professional reputation.
This is a real fear, especially in more traditional fields. Being seen as someone who tried something and it did not work can carry a stigma it should not. The loud build-in-public crowd rarely names that. You are allowed to build quietly. You can test ideas under the radar. You can move slowly and privately until you have something you feel safe attaching your name to. Your work is still real, even if no one sees the early versions.
Q: The entrepreneurship content I consume makes me feel like I’m already behind. How do I deal with that?
Start with this. A lot of people creating that content make money when you feel behind. Urgency sells programs. The “only 1% of people do this” line is a hook, not a diagnosis of your life. You are not late. You are at the beginning. That is the only place you can actually start from.
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This post is part of a 12 month self education series called The One-Person Renaissance. We have already covered Economics and Finance in January and Technology and AI in February. March is entrepreneurship. April is next.
Read the full series overview here
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